the speaker was actually a total loser in marriage. She has divorced for three times.
这个做演讲的女人其实在婚姻中是很失败的,她先后离了三次婚。
But she proposed a great idea of marrying yourself.
但是在她所有的恋爱和婚姻经历后,她提出了一个很棒的观点,叫做和自己结婚。
It means you commit to yourself fully and build a relationship with yourself to the point where you realize that you are whole right now.\
完全地贡献给自己,和自己建立一种恋爱关系,直到此时此刻你意识到自己变得完整了。