So that's through behavior. Very effective- the exposure technique.
这就是行为治疗法,很有效,曝光的方法。
And finally, you can also intervene through cognition in therapy, in dealing with irrational thoughts, psychological traps, the three M's- "Am I magnifying?
最后,在治疗过程中还能介入认知来处理不理智的想法,心理困惑,那三个M,“我有将事情放大吗?
The extent. Am I minimizing something? For example, my successes in working with people.
我有轻视了自己的一些才能吗?例如小瞧了自己在与人相处方面的成功。
Or am I making up? Imaginary scenarios. My catastrophizing events when I can have a more realistic view. "
我有在编造事实,想象情景吗?本可以更现实地看待的事情,我有将它灾难化吗?”
So that's my thinking about it, the cognition. Let me show you a personal example of something that I dealt with So as you know, born through genes- high levels of anxiety.
这就是我的想法,认知。跟你们说说我克服某种困难的做法,你们知道,我天生就很容易焦虑。
Very prone to it. Startle very easily- still, less today, but still to some extent today.
我很容易焦虑,容易吃惊,容易被惊吓,现在好一点了,但还是会容易吃惊。
Used to get very nervous in squash matches. Used to choke often, when I was playing important games.
以前参加壁球比赛时非常紧张,在重要比赛时常常呼吸困难。
And that's something that in front of, speaking in front of an audience, got very nervous and anxious.
但我面对的事实是要在观众面前讲话,非常紧张和焦虑。
And this is something that I decided that I really wanted to deal with.
我决定要克服这种心理。