If you want to make a great first impression
--and why wouldn't you?
--you know there are basic steps
you can take: Smile, make eye contact,
listen more than you talk,
ask questions about the other person.
Anyone can do those things.
But what you might not know is that
if you think other people are going to like you,
they usually will.
如果你想给人留下良好的第一印象(为什么不呢?),
你可以采取以下几个常规套路:
微笑,眼神交流,少说多听,向对方提问。
这些是每个人都能做到的。
但你可能不知道,
如果你心里认为对方会喜欢你,
通常对方真的会喜欢你。
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