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Do you love love?
你喜欢爱情吗？
I do. I really do.
我喜欢。很喜欢。
I'm a hopeless romantic.
我是个无可救药的浪漫主义者。
Do you love love differently today than you did a few years ago?
你现在喜欢爱情的方式和几年前有什么不同吗？
Yeah. For sure. I think, well, right?
当然。肯定有。我觉得肯定会有不同吧？
You're in a phase of life where you experience love for the first time and I think that can be... that can just be a little toxic.
当你处于人生的某个阶段，第一次尝到了爱情的滋味，我觉得那时候可能会经历一些不愉快。
Because when you're young, I mean that's what I tell my friends and people that I love, it's you have this codependency that you think is love.
因为当你年轻的时候，我对我的朋友和我爱的人也是这样说的，你把那种互相依赖的感觉当成了爱情。
And then you have this addiction to the passion and the frustration with each other that you think oh that's love.
然后沉溺于彼此之间的激情和沮丧，你觉得，这就是爱情。
Or, you know, fighting or doing all this stuff, oh that's love.
或者，那些争吵，一起做各种事情，这就是爱情了。
And I believed that for a long time.
很长一段时间我都是这么认为的。
So I've been super super single for two years.
所以我已经单身两年了，完全没谈任何恋爱。
And I want to know what that love will look like next for me.
我想知道我下一个阶段的爱情会是什么样子。
I want it to be... I want it to be real.
我希望它是真实的。
And I don't want it to be codependent or messy or, you know, lack of communication and...
我不希望它只是互相依赖，或者混乱的，缺乏沟通的……
I think, you know, when you get older, you find people that are actually right for you, you know, that are actually on the same wavelength, if you will.
我觉得当你长大一些，你会找到真正适合你的人，你知道的，就是那种真正和你处在同一个频道的人，如果你能找得到的话。
Because it's...
因为……
You know yourself, too.
你也很了解你自己诶。
A little bit. Hey, I still got a lot to go, I think, but...
一点点吧。我觉得我还有很多功课要做，但是……
Of course, but you have at least a better understanding of you - who you are and what page you're on.
当然，但你至少已经更加了解自己了，你是谁，你所在的位置。
So then you can find somebody who is on the same page.
这样你才能找到和你志趣相投的人。
Yeah, but I'm chilling right now, you guys.
没错，但我现在正在休息，朋友们。
Honestly, that is so stressful, so...
说实话，谈恋爱挺费神的，所以……
I've been having way too much fun being on my own.
我现在一个人开心得不得了。
It sucked for the first year.
第一年还挺难受的。
I was like I just want to cuddle, like you just watch something and be adored.
那时候想要抱抱，想要看点什么，被人宠着。
But, yeah, now it feels good, now it feels awesome.
但，现在感觉单身很好，可以说非常好。
