1. I'm angry with myself for not recognizing the abuse and that's something I'm struggling with today.
struggle with 与…斗争;与…作斗争;和…斗争
He is engaged in a bitter struggle with his rival to get control of the company.
为取得对公司的控制权,他正同对手进行一场激烈的斗争
。2. Abusers can have a psychological hold over their victims which workers in the field call a trauma bond
hold over 以…威胁;以…要挟;推迟;搁置
Did Laurie know something, and hold it over Felicity?
劳丽是否知道点什么,并以此要挟费莉西蒂呢?
3. To that end they say more government funding will not solve the problem but will help.
to that end 那样的原因;为此目的;为此
To that end he needs a considered response.
为了做到这一点,他需要深思熟虑再行动
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