说起“人生赢家”，常给人一种遥不可及的感觉。相比追求当凤毛麟角的“人生赢家”，也许关注自己的内心，培养豁达、坚韧的“赢家个性”更为重要。今天，Jenny和Jason就要分享何为“赢家个性”。

Winning personality: 赢家个性

“Winning” emphasizes the importance of winning people over and create a win win situation: “赢家 "强调的是赢得人心，创造双赢

It means you don’t win at others’ expense. Rather, you win by winning people over and helping them win: 这意味着你不会以牺牲他人的利益为代价。相反，通过赢得他人并帮助他人赢得胜利

赢家个性的关键要素

1. Self awareness：自我认知、自我认识

Recognizing one’s own strengths and weaknesses without exaggeration: 对自己的优点和缺点客观认识，不夸大

2. Confidence: 自信

Believing in one’s ability to succeed, which helps them take risks and navigate challenges: 相信自己有能力取得成功，能帮助你敢于承担风险、应对挑战

3. Humility: 谦卑

Having a modest view of one's own importance：谦卑看待自己的重要性

It involves being grounded, acknowledging one's limitations, and being open to learning from others: 这包括脚踏实地、承认自己的局限性，并愿意虚心向他人学习

4. Adaptability: 适应性

Being flexible and open to change, especially in response to new information or circumstances: 对变化持灵活开放的态度，尤其是在应对新信息或新情况时

5. Assertiveness: 果敢

Being confident and direct in expressing one's needs, opinions, and feelings while respecting the perspectives of others: 敢于分享自己的想法、观点、感受。同时又能尊重他人的观点

6. Curiosity: 好奇心

A strong desire to learn and grow, constantly seeking new knowledge and ways to improve: 强烈的学习和成长愿望，不断寻求新知识和提升的途径

7. Emotional intelligence: 情绪智商

The ability to understand and manage one’s own emotions and those of others, empathetic: 能够理解并管理自己和他人的情绪，具有同理心

8. Goal-oriented: 目标导向

Having a clear vision of what they want to achieve and setting specific, measurable steps to reach it: 对自己想要实现的目标有清晰的认识，并能为实现目标制定具体、可衡量的步骤

9. Discipline: 自律

Consistent habits and the ability to stay focused on long-term goals, even when motivation wanes: 能坚持不懈的保持习惯、专注于长期目标，即使在动力减退时

10. Perseverance：毅力、忍耐

Steadfastness and determination to continue working toward a goal or overcoming challenges despite difficulties, obstacles, or delays: 即使遇到困难、障碍或延误，仍能坚定不移地朝着目标努力、克服挑战

11. Persistence：坚持

Staying committed to goals, even when progress is slow or difficult：即使进展缓慢或困难重重，也能坚守目标

12. Resilience：韧劲、坚韧

The capacity to recover quickly from setbacks and keep moving forward despite obstacles：能从挫折中迅速恢复，克服困难继续前进

13. Optimism: 乐观

Maintaining a positive outlook, key in overcoming challenges and setbacks without getting discouraged：保持积极的心态，对于克服挑战、挫折而不气馁至关重要

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