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跨越种族的婚姻和爱情
Are we losing too many good men to women of other races?
我们许多好男人是否倒向其他种族女性的怀抱了？
You know, it is very interesting.
你知道，这非常有趣。
It's a woman about the races to man, it’s a little bit…
这是女性种族之于男人的问题。
But if we are talking about, if we are talking about to other races, it’s very interesting ,because you know, I feel as black woman, you know, and I have men tell me this, when I say, you know, we are at the clubs. I’ve been raised I am old fashion. You are at the club, you know, take your butt all over there and be up in man's faces. You know I wanna wait for the men to come over and say "hey, how are you doing?”, but then you have other woman who ran up to the man and they treat them like, and I am saying I am black woman, and they are treated like they are adored, but if I do that, I got a name for myself. Because I run it up in your face, I don't know any black women, that could go out here and make a sex tape and get a cupcake line, a clogging line, a perfume line and be toddled round ON THE ARM, ON THE ARM of an ethnic like this is my girl because you know, when we do that kind, we call super haired. We call, you know, and so when I see this kind of stuff, I’m going, wow, I am a good woman here, I am trying to raise a good black man, a boy to be a good black man. But I don't feel like I am on put on the pedestal like the other women.
但是，如果我们说的是其他种族的问题，这非常有趣，因为你知道，我觉得假设我是黑人女性，曾经有男人在俱乐部告诉我一些事情。我被人家抨击不够时尚。你知道，坐在酒吧里，坦胸露乳，搜寻着目标。你知道，我在等有男人走过来说，“你好，你在做什么？”然后就有其他女人跑到这个男人面前，表现得好像自己很受喜爱，很受尊崇。但是如果我这样做的话，我会责备我自己。当我跑到你面前的时候，我不认识任何黑人女性会这样做，搞出性爱录像，蛋糕约会，横刀夺爱，浓妆艳抹，东倒西歪等等，因为你知道，如果我们这样做，我们就会被贴上败坏名誉的标签。所以，当我看到类似的事情，我会扭头就走。我是好女人。我希望约到好男人，一个好的黑种男人。但是我不会像其他女人一样让男人把我放到台上供起来。
Does that upset you that so many black men are married to, or dating to white women?
那么多黑人男子娶了白人女子，或者和白人女子约会，你是不是觉得很沮丧？
If you find…It doesn't upset me. If you with a woman that loves you, that is gonna treat you like you need to be treated. And she is of anther race, and then God bless you. But if you are saying but I meet a black man who go I don't wanna date, I date out the race, because you, all black women are too loud! So you put this, you make us as wide sward, you call this wide sward then hell black women are. I guess god done wrong by black men, but I’m not sitting here and go all black man is ass so I’m not go and forget all your, I don't do that! I go "no, there is some good black men out there”, but when you wanna date other races exclusive to us, yeah, then I get really upset.
我并不觉得沮丧。如果你和一个爱你的女人在一起，这是你应得的。如果她和你种族不同，上帝也会祝福你。如果你说我遇到一名黑人男子，我不是想和他本人约会，只是纯粹对这个种族感兴趣，所有黑人女子都会愤怒的！如果你这样做的话，你会引起所有黑人女性的公愤。我猜上帝对黑人男子做了错误的事情，但是我不会坐在这里骂所有黑人男子都是混蛋，所以我不会说，我会忘记所有人。我会说，“还是有其他好的黑人男子的，”但是如果你们约会我们之外的其他种族的女子，我就会觉得沮丧。
Absolutely. Absolutely.
当然，当然。
Just like they said, black women are the most loyal, that black men are the most likely to date outside their race and black women are the least likely to date outside their race. (We, yeah)Is it time for black women to open the door to possibility of dating outside their race?
就像别人说的，黑人女子是世界上最忠诚的，而黑人男子是最可能约会其他种族女子的，黑人女子是最不可能约会其他种族男子的。黑人女子是否应该敞开心扉，增加约会其他种族男子的机会呢？
Based on the numbers, they are 1.8 million more of us than there are black men. You go down the number of men that are homosexual, so they don't want women at all; you have men who are already taken in a relationship with a woman married or have a boyfriend. (all my curse is in prison)yeah~you know, there are those that are in prison, and then there those that date outside of our race like Sherri said, they want nothing to do with black women.
根据数字，黑人女子的数量比黑人男子多180万。还有许多男子是同性恋，他们根本不想要女人。还有一些男人和已婚或已经谈恋爱的女人在一起。还有一些在监狱中，还有一些和其他种族的女子约会。他们不想和黑人女子有任何关系。
No.1, I think this discussion is about the issue is real, but it is kind of like a destruction, because at the end of the date, the vast majority, he knows this number, 90% of black men who get married, they marry black women. And then if we can look to some high profile black men in the media etc, and we act like this rampant prominent is much worse than it really is.
首先，我认为关于这个话题的讨论是真是的，但是有点像是破坏，因为约会的最后，大部分人，90%的黑人男子娶了黑人女子。如果我们在媒体等地方看到一些高级精英黑人男子，我们就会认为这种卓越的人物实际上差得多。
