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ways to overcome a negative state of mind
有助于扫除消极情绪的方法
Change the story in your head.
改变故事
Sometimes when you’re in a bad mood, it’s tempting to cling to a story that justifies it–and then retell it over and over like a picture book you’ve heard a million times. And then he said this…And then I did this…And then I messed up…
有时心情不好,人们很容易找个偏袒自己的理由,然后一遍又一遍地讲述,就像那本早已读过无数遍的图画书一样——“然后他说……于是我就……结果我把一切都搞砸了……”
Visualize yourself closing a book and taking a new one off the shelf. Then start telling yourself a different story. One where you’re not a victim. One where you’re not powerless. One where you’re accepting what happened, and moving on so you don’t lose anymore time to that other book.
何不放下这本翻烂的书,再从书架上取一本新的呢?这样你才能享有别样的故事。在新故事里,你可以不再是受伤的那个人,你不再无助,你面对现实并继续前行,为人生的下一篇章而奋斗。
【知识点讲解】
mess up 弄乱,弄糟; 搞乱; 搅乱;
例句:
He got another chance and didn't want to mess up again.他又获得一次机会,这次他再也不愿意把事情弄糟了.
He didn't want to mess up the situation.他不想把事情弄糟.
She used to mess up the floor and I had to clean up after her.她过去常常把地板弄得很脏乱,而我不得不为她清理干净。
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