可可电台，每期节目一话题，让英语磨练耳朵的同时学到更多有益的小知识，丰富知识的同时受益于生活。

别毒害自己的爱情

You think no one can handle issues better than you.

你觉得自己无所不能目空一切

Enablers often assume that if they don’t get things done, no one will.

弗罗里达棕榈滩花园的婚姻和家庭问题治疗专家认为，关系中比较强势的一方往往认为除了自己其他人都办不到。

That thought is not only a little egotistical, it’s unhealthy, said Linda Lipshutz, a marriage and family therapist in Palm Beach Gardens, Florida.

这不仅仅是有点自大，而是病态。

“Ultimately, the belief that no one else can handle the situations as well as we can is misguided,”she said.If this is a problem for you, Lipshutz recommends ceding some control and not allowing your“ego and identity get so tied up in other’s successes or failures.”

最终，这种观念是一种误导。如果你有这种问题，那就试着放手，不要把对方的成功和失败和自己联系的太过紧密。

【知识点讲解】

not only 不仅

例句：

Water is not only colorless, but odorless as well.

水不仅没有颜色，也没有气味。

They not only talked but also shouted and laughed.

他们不只谈话，而且喊叫大笑。

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