No.8 - She responds to messages on your behalf.
排名第八:用我的名义去回复我收到的信息。
The obligations never end. If it’s not an out-of-town wedding this weekend, it’s a birthday party for a friend you haven’t said a word to in months. You’ll RSVP on your own time and on your own terms -- unless she has already made the calls and penciled in everything on your social calendar. She has become your social secretary, making sure to respond to every invitation with a “plus-one.”
“不经我的同意,就帮我答复了邀请我的婚礼、或是一个朋友的生日派对。仿佛她是我的生活秘书,我的事情都由她来做主。”