No.2 - She threatens to hurt/kill herself.
排名第二:她威胁会伤害或杀死自己。
She is on to the fact that you aren’t happy and might be looking for a way out. She realizes that only drastic measures will keep you around. She starts making crazy statements in the middle of arguments, like,“If you leave, I’d probably kill myself” and other threats of bodily harm. Is she serious? You don’t really want to test her but you can’t keep up like this.
当她意识到我已经不再爱她、要和她分手的时候,她就会像疯了一样威胁我:“如果你离开,我就自杀!” 或是做其他伤害自己的行为。我当然不能看着她这样,但我也不能因此就不和她分手……