8“Are you sure you’re okay?"
(Repeatedly. Even after he’s told you he really is okay.)
Sometimes we’re thrown off guard when our guy is uncharacteristically quiet. We’ll prod and probe, hoping to get to the bottom of their issue (and too often, we’re absolutely sure it’s something we’ve done). When in reality, there may not be a concrete reason at all.
Men have bad days too — they can be moody, tired, or just generally not feel like talking. They’re only human! As hard as it can be, don’t read into it too much. Give him his space and keep yourself busy until he snaps out of it.
Ask him what’s bothering him over and over again and the only honest answer will be “You.”
“你真的没事吧?”
有时,我们会发现男友和以前不一样,出奇的安静。我们就会好奇,想知道发生了什么事。其实,男人也会有情绪,也会不开心,疲惫或者不想说话。这个时候让他一个人呆着是个最佳的选择。