9.“I hate my thighs”
If he didn’t find you attractive, he wouldn’t be with you in the first place. Period, end of story.
Putting yourself down in front of him makes you look insecure, and just in case you didn’t know, men really hate that. Just like women, they’re usually attracted to self-confidence and put off by its opposite.
Think about it. Would you want to be with a man who constantly talked about how much he hated his calves or how he felt like a failure in his career? Uh, no way.
In addition, you’ll draw attention to flaws that he probably never even noticed before. No one else looks as closely at your body as you do. In all likelihood, you are your own worst critic. Don’t recruit him.
“我讨厌自己的大腿。”
如果他不喜欢你,就不会和你在一起。在他面前表现不自信,让她觉得你没有安全感不是好事。更坏的是,你有可能会让他也注意到你身上的缺点。