4) What’s Said: “You’re too picky”
What’s Heard: This implies that at some point, a point that the single friend or loved one has reached, she is no longer allowed to be discriminating, says Anderson. “This sends single women the message that their time to be choosy is up, that it’s now time to go out and pick up any chump.”
说者:你太挑剔了
听者:我以前太挑剔,现在连挑剔的机会都没有了。