1 Tone down your fashions. First impressions do count.
You can still wear brightly colored clothes, but look at the fit and the style.
Wear more tailored clothing, more put together.
不再那么在乎外表。当你发现自己不再盲目的喜欢跟风似的和一群人混在一起,开始尊重自己的意愿做自己需要做的事情,开始安排自己的种种计划,规划自己的方向,自己的独处也变得充满意义。
2 Use manners. Try to be courteous without being stuffy or inflexible.
When meeting new people, shake their hand. A solid grip, but not too hard, two pumps of the hand and let go. Don't look at your hands; look them in the eye. Repeat their name and make an effort to remember it.
Avoid interrupting people during conversation; people find this irritating.
Don't play with things, look away, or fidget.
注意自己的仪态。心态,健全平和的心态是始终贯穿成功之路的筹码。正确地树立前进的目标,让生活目标而不是在沉重氛围的度过,记住,任何时候都不要把自己搞得太累,生活的价值就完全失去了。