4. Share yourself.
Don’t keep your likes and dislikes, dreams and fears, achievements and mistakes, or anything else to yourself. If it’s important to you, share it with your partner. More than that, be sure to share more with your partner than you do with anyone else. While there is certainly a need for some personal space in even the closest relationship, give as much of yourself and your time as you can bear to your partner.
4.分享自己的一切.
不要对情人隐藏自己的喜爱和厌恶,梦想和恐惧,成功和挫折,以及任何有关自己的东西.如果有什么事情对你重要,就与情人分享它吧.更重要的是,保证与情人分享得比其他人要多.然而即使在亲密的关系中,人也必然需要个人空间,因此你给更多的耐心和时间,对待情人.