Lasting relationships
The rules of attraction might drive our initial decisions, for better or worse. But lasting relationships are about much more than what we see and smell.
Behavior plays a key role, with biology an intriguing contributing factor.
One of the oldest theories about attraction is that like begets like. It explains that eerie perception that married couples sometimes look awfully similar.
长久的关系
人与人之间的吸引规律可能最促使我们做出最初的决定,不论决定是好还是坏。但是维持一段关系就远不是光看或者闻闻就够了。
行为起到了重要的作用,这其中生理原因发生了复杂的影响。
有一条很古老的吸引规律是,已婚的夫妻看起来出去的相似。在2005年,西安大略州大学的心理学家Philippe Rushtopn研究了人类基因之间的关系,根据一系列有遗传性的人格特征,他发现,拥有相似的基因在朋友关系或选择配偶中起到了34%的作用。