Bonus Tips:

* In the beginning, never turn down an invitation from someone, even if it’s something you wouldn’t normally do.

* Email your new friends with fun things to do instead of always asking what their plans are. If they have a better plan you can always still drop yours and join them. This will help establish you as someone who is contributing value instead of just taking it (people want this in a friend).

* Don’t let little things in life piss you off or be a negative person. Others won’t want to be around you!

额外提示：

* 开始时，绝不要拒绝别人的邀请，即使那是你一般不喜欢做的事情。

* 给新朋友发邮件要说些有趣的事，不要总是问他们的打算如何。如果他们有个不错的计划，你可以谈谈你的想法，加入进去。这样有助于让别人看到你的价值，而不会仅仅是猜测（人们希望朋友是这样的人。）

* 别为生活中的小事烦恼，或做悲观的人。别人不会愿意和这种人交往。