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I asked women who married between the ages of 18 and 23 to share what they believe to be the benefits of getting married at a young age and gathered their responses below:
有些女孩在18到23岁的时候就结了婚，我请这些人分享了她们所认为的结婚早的好处，她们的回答如下：
1. While you're young you can enjoy the complete life adventure with your closest friend.
1. 当你还年轻的时候，能够与另一半一起享受一场完完全全的生活大冒险。
2. You and your spouse are not set in your ways quite yet. You can mold and shape each other as time goes on.
2. 你和另一半的生活方式还没有完全成型。随着时间的推移，你们可以影响、塑造彼此的习惯。
3. You learn to compromise as you approach some of life's biggest decisions hand in hand.
3. 一起面对生活中最重要的决定时，你们会学会妥协。
4. Support. When you're starting your career or in school or moving every couple years, it's so nice to have a cheerleader all the time.
4. 支持。每隔几年，当你打算重新开始一份工作、或是继续读书、又或是搬家时，总有人支持你的感觉真好。
5. You're unavoidably poor when you're young, which helps you learn and gain financial stability together. When you start out with nothing, you learn to be grateful for anything.
5. 年轻的时候，贫穷是无法避免的，这会帮助你们一起学习如何保持财务稳定。当你最开始一无所有时，你会学会对所有东西感恩。
6. If you're looking to start a family, your body is better equipped to have babies at a younger age.
6. 如果你打算组建家庭，年轻的时候，身体更适合怀孕。
7. You're used to making someone else your first priority.
7. 你会习惯先考虑他人。
8. You celebrate many events and milestones together that people who marry later in life may not get the opportunity to.
8. 你会与另一半一起庆祝很多的事件和重要时刻，如果晚点结婚，可能你就不会有这种机会了。
9. You grow up together.
9. 你们一起成长。
10. You let go of selfish habits before you develop them. It's not always about where you want to go or what you want to see, and you learn to involve another person.
10. 在你还未养成自私习惯前，你就不再自私了。世界并不总是围绕你想去哪儿或者你想看什么，你开始学会要考虑他人。
11. You learn most everything together, both literally and metaphorically, and can help enhance each other's education.
11. 很多事情你们都是一起学会的，既是比喻意义又是字面上的意思，这能有助于增加彼此的涵养。
12. You'll both have more energy, whether that's to work together, play together, or to chase after your kids together.
12. 你们都会更有精神，不管是一起工作、一起玩闹还是一起追逐孩子们。
13. Making plans for the future (for example, where you are going to live in the next few years, how many children you want, what kind of house you will buy, etc.) is easier because you've made the ultimate commitment and so you work as a unit.
13. 为未来做计划会更简单（比如，过几年你们想住哪儿，你们想要几个孩子，以及你们打算买什么样的房子等等），因为你们已经对彼此做出了终极承诺，所以你们会以一个团队的精神工作。
14. Your ambition and dreams don't stop just because you're married. You both get creative on how to achieve your personal and mutual goals.
14. 你的抱负和梦想不会只是因为结婚而停止。你们俩在如何实现个人目标和共同目标方面都更有创造性想法。
15. Marriage at a young age makes you both more accountable, to each other and to your individual goals.
15. 年纪小一点结婚会让你们更有责任感，不仅对彼此更负责，而且对自己的目标也是如此。
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