1. CREATING FAKE PROFILES
1. 创建假的个人档案
While there's always the chance that somebody has a fake Facebook profile for the sole purpose of online trolling, it's likely a sign of more suspicious behavior. If your significant other has a fake social media profile, it's far from out of bounds to ask them why it's there and what exactly they need it for.
虽然总可能有这样的人,他们在脸书上创建假的个人信息只是为了不受约束的上网,但这也有可能是一种更可疑行为的迹象。如果你的另一半在社交媒体上的个人信息是假的,那问他/她为什么这样做以及他们究竟想从中获得什么就不会让人感觉出格了。
2. POSTING FLIRTY PHOTOS
2. 发一些轻浮的照片
If your social media posts have gone from PG to NC-17 in a matter of weeks after someone you're attracted to started following you, you might be social media cheating. Posting photos for the purpose of tempting someone other than your significant other isn't exactly innocent, after all.
如果你感兴趣的人在社交媒体上关注了你,然后你发布的照片在几周内从建议父母陪着看级别(PG)转变成17岁以下不得观看(NC-17),那这种行为可能就是社交媒体出轨。毕竟,为了诱惑某人(不是你的另一半)而发照片的行为可一点儿都不单纯呢。
3. USING CODE NAMES
3. 使用代号
If you're renaming contacts in your phone or only communicating with people using fake names online, it certainly seems like you've got something to hide. If you're being fully faithful with your partner, you shouldn't feel the need to hide who you're talking to.
如果你在手机中重新备注联系人,或者只与网上用假名的人聊天,那你肯定隐瞒了什么。如果你对另一半完全忠诚,那和别人聊天的时候你就不会瞒着他/她。
4. CONSTANTLY CHECKING SOMEONE'S STATUSES
4. 不断查看某人的状态
Yes, even the most faithful partners will occasionally check in on an ex's social media from time to time. However, if you're constantly looking for updates and new photos, you're on a slippery slope toward infidelity.
是的,即使是最忠诚的另一半也会不时的查看前任的社交媒体状态。但如果你总是看他/她的更新状态、新的照片,那你就很有可能出轨。
5. FOLLOWING PEOPLE YOU WANT TO HOOK UP WITH
5. 关注你想勾搭的人
Following someone on Instagram solely because you think they're hot is not as innocent as it sounds. If you don't know someone, but choose to follow them for their looks alone, you're admitting your attraction and trying to connect, neither of which are exactly above board.
在Ins上关注某人只是因为他们很火辣并没有听上去那么单纯。如果你不了解某人,但却因为他们的外貌而关注他/她,那你就是在承认你被他/她吸引,想和他/她联系,这些行为都是偷偷摸摸的。
6. COMMENTING ON AN EX'S PHOTOS
6. 在前任的照片下评论
"Congrats!" on a photo of your ex's new baby? Fine. Commenting, "Wish I was there with you!" on a photo of them sunbathing in a bikini? Not so innocent.
前任刚生了宝宝发了照片,你评论说"恭喜!"没问题。但在他们穿着比基尼晒日光浴的照片下评论"真希望我在你身边"?目的就没有那么单纯了。
7. CONFIDING IN SOMEONE OTHER THAN YOUR PARTNER
7. 和不是另一半的人吐露心声
Intimacy extends far beyond the physical. If you're confiding in someone other than your partner and leaning on them for emotional support, you might be guilty of social media infidelity.
亲密不止是身体行为。如果你和不是另一半的人吐露心声、并希望他们给你情感上的支持,那这种行为可能就是社交媒体出轨了。
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