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1.) What your makeup and hair and outfit look like
1.) 不要担心你的妆容、发型和穿着
Of course, you want to look good when you go on a date. There's nothing wrong with that. Everyone wants to and your date is going to want to look good for you as well. At the same time, though, you don't need to worry about what your makeup, hair, and outfit look like on a date. Yes, pick out an outfit that makes you feel good, and yes, do your hair and wear your favorite lipstick (yup, the one that you always get tons of compliments on). But don't go overboard overthinking this.
约会时想要展现自己最美的一面，这一点无可厚非。每个人都会这么想，你的约会对象也是如此。但是，约会时不必过度担心自己的妆容、发型和穿着。是的，如果一件衣服让你自我感觉良好，那就是它了，然后稍微捯饬一番头发，抹上你最爱的口红（是的，就是那支人人都夸的口红）。但也不要捯饬过度。
If you and this guy get along and want to see each other again, that definitely means that he finds you attractive, but your looks aren't the only thing that he finds interesting about you. He'll also be attracted to who you are inside and love your personality. He won't care that you wore a black dress when you had been debating a red one for half an hour.
如果你和约会对象相处融洽，还想多约几次会，那就说明约会对象认为你很有吸引力，但外貌不是他看重的唯一。或许，他也被你的内在所吸引，很喜欢你的性格。即使约会前，你在黑红两条裙子前纠结了大半天，最后还是选择了那条黑色的裙子，他也不会介意。
2.) How many times you check your phone
2.) 看手机的次数
Yes, it's part of conventional dating advice: don't look at your phone. Don't text your best friend or look at social media or Google something. Don't check your work or personal email and, by the way, don't even have your phone on the table. Leave it in your purse where it belongs and focus on your date.
是的，以前我们会给出这样的约会建议：不要看手机。不要给闺蜜发短信、不要刷社交媒体，也不要谷歌搜索。不要查看工作或个人邮件，此外，不要把手机放在餐桌上。我们会建议你把手机放在钱包里，专心约会。
Yeah, that's good advice… but at the same time, we're all human, right? If you go on a date and happen to check your phone because someone texted you and you accidentally looked to see who it was, that's okay. It really is. These things happen and you can shrug it off with a laugh and say something like, "Yup, I'm addicted to this phone…" You might also be checking your phone when your date goes to the bathroom. That's totally fine, too.
是的，这是个好主意，但与此同时，我们都是人，对吧？如果你去约会了，正好有个人给你发了短信，所以你看了眼手机，看看发短信的人是谁，这并无大碍。这种事情时有发生，你只要笑着耸耸肩说上一句，"是的，我对手机上瘾了……"约会对象去卫生间的时候，你也会看手机，这根本就不是什么大事。
Chances are, if your date is a good person who you can see yourself with long-term, he'll laugh along with you and say that he's just as attached to his phone. Plus, it takes the pressure off if his mom emails him and he has to answer super quickly.
如果你觉得和约会对象有戏，那么当你说出那句话的时候，他也会大笑着说他也对手机上瘾。而且，如果他的妈妈给他发邮件而他必须快速回复的话，你玩手机的做法也会减轻他的压力。
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