We've kind of grown apart in the past few years,我们在前些年都过着分开的日子

grow apart朝不同方向生长

The two halves if the main branch have grown apart, forming separate trees.

树干长出了两个分枝，形成了分开的两棵树。

Sadly, after eight years of marriage they had grown apart.

不幸的是，结婚八年后，他们的感情日渐淡漠了。

Somebody's got to put a stop to this.一定要有人去阻止他啊

get to开始；达到（某一阶段）

I intend to get to the bottom of it.

这件事我打算寻根究底。

I try to get to work before the rush hour starts.

我试图在繁忙时间之前去上班。

put a stop结束

We must put a stop to the fight.

我们必须制止这场殴斗。

We ought to find some way to put a stop to that matter.

我们得想个办法终止这件事情。