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Don’t let any more opportunities to meet that sexy stranger slip away!
You Will Need
Courage
Confidence
Some conversation starters
Step 1: Introduce yourself
Approach the person and introduce yourself. Don’t bother with cheesy pickup lines—studies show a simple “Hi” works best.
If the other person doesn’t immediately offer his or her name, chances are the interest level is low.
Step 2: Use name immediately
After you get the person’s name, use it almost immediately. For example, “So, Jen, are you a coffee addict, too?” People love the sound of their own name.
Try to slip in a little flattery. Compliment her name, an article of his clothing—just don’t go overboard.
Step 3: Ask questions
Once a conversation is underway, ask questions so you can do more listening than talking. When allowed to dominate a conversation, a person is more likely to rate the listener as highly interesting.
Try to make the other person laugh. A good sense of humor is always high on the list of traits that singles seek.
Step 4: Don't linger
Don’t linger. After a few minutes, say that you have to rejoin your friends, get back to work, whatever. End the flirting before you run out of things to say.
Step 5: Say you'd love to see them again
Before walking away, tell the person you’ve enjoyed chatting and would love to see them again. Hopefully they’ll offer their number.
If you have business cards, pull one out and suggest that you trade.
Step 6: Ask for phone number
If the other person doesn’t get the hint, ask straight-up for their phone number. Now go think of what to say when you call!
Research shows that men decide within the first 15 minutes of a date if they want to see the person again, while women take up to an hour.
