爱情是两个人的事情,是否能幸福一辈子是谁也无法预料的,而且这个东西只能奢望不能预见。劝楼主不要陷在爱情的谜局中,而是按照自己的生活方式去做。爱情需要多种调味剂去改变它的味道,也需要保鲜剂来为它保鲜,只有有味道而又保持新鲜的爱情才能让你觉得幸福。
Three-Day Courtship Leads to a Lasting Marriage
I spent all the afternoon of the date sunbathing. I was red as a beet. My hair was a mess and I really didn’t wanna go. And as we were walking down the stairs I saw the three guys sitting there and I said to my friend “look at the hick with no tie, I'll bet I get stuck with him.” And I did. We went out. And I knew he didn’t have any money. They wanted to stop for a hamburger and a Coke and, and he just frankly told me “I can’t afford it. ” Somehow or other that seemed honest to me. I said let’s just sit in the car and talk. And talk we did. Talked ourselves right into love and marriage. And then I called him. And we deicided maybe we wanna to see each other again, but friends from Chicago had come in and they took me out to lunch. So I stood him up.
I waited longer for her that day than I have ever waited for anybody in my life. I don’t think I really was mad, I was disgusted and I just wrote this girl off. And so I went back to work, worked Monday night, worked Tuesday night, in Wednesday evening the manager said, ''Frank you've got a telephone call.'' And in her little girl’s voice, She started explaining to me. And the sucker that I was, I accepted the apology. And on Friday, I took her out to the farm to meet my mother and dad. And I told Dad Saturday, ''If you can find us a minister, we are gonna get marry tomorrow.'' And on the honeymoon, we got halfway to Lake Shafer and I discovered that I only had $20.
So we honeymooned on $20 and it was fun.
I found a motel for $3 a night. We discovered a beer garden where you get a hamburger and a bottle of beer for, I think 75 cents. So we lived 3 days and 3 nights.
On hamburger, beer and love. And I’ve never once regretted. A 3-day courtship.