Don’t suffer in silence if a teacher is getting out of line with you. Take these steps to correct the situation.

如果老师对你做了出格的事，不要只是沉默，采取以下的步骤来纠正那种状况。

Step 1
Know what’s right and wrong. It’s fine if your teacher is taking a personal interest in your studies, but it’s not OK if they are asking prying questions about your love life.

要分清对和错。如果你的老师只是对你的学习感兴趣，那没关系；如果他们询问你窥测性的问题，比如你的爱情生活，那就不正常了。

Step 2
If you’re unsure if your teacher is overstepping, ask yourself this: Would your parents disapprove of things your teacher says to you or does with you? If so, they are behaving inappropriately.

如果你不确定你的老师是否出格，问下你自己：老师对你说的事或和你做过的事，父母不赞成吗？如果父母不赞成，那说明老师的行为不端。

Step 3
If your teacher is making you uncomfortable but hasn’t actually said or done anything improper, restrict your time with them to the classroom. Don’t have any interaction with them that doesn’t involve schoolwork.

如果你的老师只是让你感到不自在，但实际上没有做任何不妥的事，你要限定和他（她）一起呆在教室的时间。不要和他们交流和学业无关的事。

Tip:Don’t let them manipulate you into spending time alone with them.

不要喝他们独处，不给他们可乘之机，

Step 4
If your teacher crosses the line in any way, like touching you, sending you suggestive e-mails or text messages, buying you alcohol, or showing you pornography, tell your parents immediately and report your teacher to the principal.

如果老师对你做了出格的事，比如摸你，或是发暗示性的邮件或短信，给你买酒或是给你看色情读物，马上告诉你们的父母，并向校长举报那个老师。

Step 5
Don’t blame yourself. Even if a part of you enjoyed the attention, they’re the adult.

不要责备自己。即使你有些喜欢引起注意，但老师是成年人。