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恋人同居 如何和谐共处让爱情更甜蜜(视频+字幕+文本)

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You and your partner have decided to move in together. Here are some steps to prevent war from breaking out in your living room.

你和恋人决定搬到一起。下面的措施可以帮你们避免客厅里爆发战争。

You Will Need

你需要

Communication skills

沟通技巧

A chore list

家务清单

Personal space

个人空间

Flexibility

灵活性

Steps

步骤

STEP 1 Be sure

1.确定

Make sure you're moving in together for the right reasons. Moving in to fix your relationship problems may make those problems worse.

确保你们是因为正确的原因搬到一起。为了修补恋情中出现的问题而搬到一起往往会让情况更加糟糕。

STEP 2 Make it home

2.有家的感觉

Make your new place feel like home. With a positive attitude and willingness to compromise, work with your partner to organize and decorate each room.

让你们新的住所有家的感觉。采取积极的态度和作出让步的意愿,和伴侣一起布置和装饰每个房间。

Get rid of duplicate items, keeping the better of the two collections.

丢弃重复的物品,留下其中较好的一个。

STEP 3 Define normal

3.定义正常行为

Define what you consider normal behavior in a household. Find a happy medium with your partner, and respect their quirks and habits.

定义在家中哪种行为是正常的。在你和伴侣之间找到一个让两人开心的平衡点,尊重他们的怪癖和习惯。

STEP 4 Divide chores

4.分摊家务

Divide chores and create a chore list. Make sure you both feel the list is divided equally.

分担家务,制作家务清单。确保两人都觉得分配公平。

Specify when chores are to be completed. People have different expectations about how often the laundry should be done or the bathroom cleaned.

详细说明家务应该何时完成。人们对应该多久洗一次衣服或清洁一次浴室有着不同的预期。

STEP 5 Assign responsibilities

5.分派任务

Choose responsibilities ahead of time. Make clear what you expect from each other before you move.

提前划分责任。采取行动前明确期望对方做什么。

STEP 6 Be alone

6.私人空间

Set aside time away from each other. By giving each other space, you’ll appreciate your time together even more.

预留一点单独的时间。通过相互给对方私人空间,你们会更加珍惜两人在一起的时间。

STEP 7 Be flexible

7.灵活机动

Be flexible and listen to each other’s needs. Work together to make both parties happy, and moving in will be a lot easier.

灵活一点,倾听对方的需求。一起努力,让双方都开心,搬到一起住将更加容易。

Did you know? More than half of all first marriages in the U.S. are preceded by couples living together.

你知道吗?美国超过一半的初婚者婚前搬到一起同居。

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compromise ['kɔmprəmaiz]

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n. 妥协,折衷,折衷案
vt. 妥协处理,危

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decorate ['dekəreit]

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vt. 装饰,装修,授予某人奖章或其他奖状

 
communication [kə.mju:ni'keiʃn]

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n. 沟通,交流,通讯,传达,通信

 
flexibility [.fleksə'biliti]

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n. 灵活性,柔韧性,适应性

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partner ['pɑ:tnə]

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n. 搭档,伙伴,合伙人
v. 同 ... 合

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flexible ['fleksəbl]

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adj. 灵活的,易弯曲的,柔韧的,可变通的

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define [di'fain]

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v. 定义,解释,限定,规定

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organize ['ɔ:gənaiz]

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v. 组织

 
prevent [pri'vent]

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v. 预防,防止

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appreciate [ə'pri:ʃieit]

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vt. 欣赏,感激,赏识
vt. 领会,充分意

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