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But there's a need I don't know Do you believe kids have personality, I mean, when they're born
但是有必要 我不知道 你相信孩子在出生时有人格吗
Do you think, you know do you think you were not necessarily predestined to be something,but do you think people are born with personality
你有没有觉得 你在出生时就被决定了要成为某个人还是你觉得人生来就有人格吗
I mean, to me, if you go pick out a puppy whenever I've gotten a puppy or a kitten, I always pick the nutso-ist one, the biggest one,
我是说 如果你要选一只小狗 每次要选小狗或者小猫时 我总是选最疯的那只 最大的那只
the one that just obviously is the happiest creature of the bunch
狗群里面明显最快乐的那只
Well, if we go and we look at a bunch of kittens or a bunch of puppies in a litter and they're different,
如果我们看到一窝小猫或则一窝小狗它们各有特点
why would a litter of kids be any different
那为什么一窝孩子会一样呢
You know, why wouldn't they have personality
那么 他们为什么没有人格呢
And so I think, you know, as a parent you should neither
所以我认为 作为家长 你不该
you know, I have two daughters who are very, very successful and people always say, you know,"Wow," you know, "you obviously did a lot of stuff right "And I say, "No, I was just lucky"
我有两个非常非常成功的女儿 人们总会说"你肯定做了很多很明智的事情"我会说 "不 只是运气好罢了"
You know, they make me look good like I knew what I was doing They kind of succeeded in spite of me
他们觉得我很棒 似乎这些都是我的功劳 但是她们似乎是克服了我的影响而走向成功的
But, you know, I mean, obviously there's something there
但是要知道 肯定是有原因的
And you as a person, you work with that
而且作为一个人 肯定就受影响
You can only fight against it to a certain extent
你只能在某种程度上做反抗
