hold someone's hand
伸出援手
A:Don't hold your hand to get it done, he should do it himself.
A:别帮他做那件事,他应该自己完成。
B:After all he is a child.
B:毕竟他还是孩子。
B:But he can never be a child. He needs to learn to be independent.
B:但他不会永远是孩子,他需要学会怎样独立。