Donny 在北京学汉语， 他的中国朋友要是遇到了不知道用美语怎么说的词，就会来请教他。今天是吴琼要问的:纠结。

Donny:Hey 吴琼, congratulations! I heard you got a job offer.

吴琼:没错，我昨天刚接到的通知！ 这可是我梦寐以求的工作。

Donny:That's great! You must be very excited.

吴琼:不过啊，我还真有点犹豫。公司要我去美国待两年，我舍不得离开这的朋友，可又不愿意放弃这个难得的机会， 实在很纠结。Donny, 纠结英文怎么说?

Donny:你可以说，I am torn, t-o-r-n, torn.

吴琼:Torn? 那不是被撕裂的意思?

Donny:Well, 一边是熟悉的生活，另一边是难得的机会，两个你都不想放弃，it's like your heart is being torn in two different directions, right? 你也可以说 I'm on the fence.

吴琼:Fence? 篱笆?

Donny:对，中文里说举棋不定，英语里说 on the fence 就好像骑在一堵围墙上，不知道该向哪边倒。

吴琼:我明白了。那你觉得我该怎么做呢?

Donny:Maybe you should ask yourself which is the lesser of two evils. Is it worse to give up your dream job or be away from your family and friends?

吴琼:The lesser of two evils? 两害相权取其轻?

Donny:That's right. Maybe when you think about it that way the answer will dawn on you.

吴琼:Dawn on me? D-a-w-n，不是“黎明”的意思么？

Donny:dawn on me 好象黎明驱走黑夜，让你把问题看清楚。

吴琼:啊，所以我可以说 it suddenly dawned on me. 恍然大悟。

Donny:Bingo. Now let's see what you've learned today.

吴琼:第一：纠结，拿不定主意可以说 I'm torn. 或是 I'm on the fence;

第二， 两害相权取其轻是 the lesser of two evils.

第三：恍然大悟是 It suddenly dawned on me.