可可电台，每期节目一话题，让英语磨练耳朵的同时学到更多有益的小知识，丰富知识的同时受益于生活。

初次约会技巧

Choose Controversial Over Dull Every Time

每次约会的争论气氛胜于沉闷气氛

Forcing people to discuss interesting but more controversial topics made for more enjoyable first date conversation.

迫使大家讨论有意思但更有争议性的话题，营造这样的气氛会让第一次约会交谈的气氛更令人愉快。

We limited the type of discussions that onlinedaters could engage in by eliminating their ability to ask anything that they wanted and giving them a preset list of questions and allowingthem to ask only these questions.

我们对网上交友者所讨论的话题限定类型，不允许想问什么就问什么，把可以问的问题给他们列出一个表，只允许他们问这些问题。

The questions we chose had nothing to do with the weather and how many brothers and sisters they have, and instead all the questions were interesting and personally revealing (ie.,“how many romantic partners did you have?”, “When was your last breakup?”, “Have you ever broken someone's heart?”, “How do you feel about abortion?”)… Instead of talking about the World Cup or their favorite desserts,they shared their inner most fears or told the story of losing their virginity.

我们选择的问题与天气无关，也不问有多少兄弟姐妹，所有的问题都很有意思，而且都能从问题的回答中看出每个人的个性（如，“你谈过多少次恋爱？”“你上一次分手是什么时候？”“你伤过别人的心吗？”“你对堕胎这个问题怎么看？”）…不谈论世界杯或自己喜欢的甜点，分享彼此内心深处的恐惧或者告诉对方自己失身的秘密。

Everyone, both sender and replier, was happier withthe interaction…What we learned from this little experiment is that when people are free to choose what type of discussions they want to have, they often gravitate toward an equilibrium that is easy to maintain but one that no onereally enjoys or benefits from.

每个人既要向对方讲述自己的故事也要倾听对方的倾诉，进行快乐互动…我们从这个小实验中可以了解到大家自由选择自己想要讨论什么话题，他们往往倾向平衡易于维护，但不会从中体验到真正的愉悦感受或从中受益。

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