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How to deal with difficult people?
如何和难处的人打交道?
Work the Solution
找到解决措施
Avoid focusing on the problem for too long.
避免在问题上纠结太久。
There’s no need to place blame, rehash over and over why it was wrong, or just repeatedly point out the negative.
没必要去责怪、一遍又一遍哀怨为什么,或反复盯着消极面不放手。
Take responsibility for your behavior and then direct the conversation toward a solution.
为自己的行为承担责任,将对话引到解决办法上。
Suggest several possible ways to solve the problem. Invite difficult people to do the same. Try to look for a solution that everyone can agree on.
提出解决问题的几个可行办法,带动对方一起想办法,然后争取找出一个双方都能接受的措施。
【知识点讲解】
focus on 致力于; 使聚焦于; 对(某事或做某事)予以注意; 把…作为兴趣中心
例句:
Their talks are expected to focus on arms control.
他们的会谈预计会集中讨论军备控制问题。
They focus on overt discrimination rather than insidious aspects of racism.
他们关注的是公开的歧视,而不是种族主义的一些潜在问题。
His administration's economic policy would focus on reining in inflation.
他的政府的经济政策将侧重于控制通货膨胀。
Take responsibility for 承担责任
例句:
Someone had to give orders and take responsibility for mistakes.
必须得有人下令,并为错误负责。
Don't worry. If anything goes wrong, I'll take responsibility for it.
没关系, 出了问题我兜着.
Bill refused to take responsibility for the accident.
比尔拒绝对那次事故承担责任.
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