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分手后老想着复合怎么办？先想清楚这个问题

Is This Just Because They're In Your Orbit?

或许你想复合只是因为他经常出现在你身边?

If you're on the same course or in the same office or have friends in common, it may just be that you're seeing too much of them and it's making you think you should be back together.

如果你们同修一门课、在同一个办公室工作或有共同的朋友，可能你只是因为太经常看到对方，才萌生了复合的想法。

“Staying too close with them and spending too much time with them does not allow you to move on from them, or to meet new people,”psychologist and love expert Dr. Nikki Martinez tells Bustle.

心理学家兼爱情专家尼基•马丁内斯博士告诉Bustle：“和对方接触太亲密，以及花过多时间在他们身上，会让你无法放下过去，认识新的人。”

Make sure you give yourself a healthy distance.

要确保你们保持恰当的距离。

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