Don’t: Not Leading, Or--Worse--Trying To Get Her To Lead。
不去主导,甚或更糟——让她去主导
When you plan to take her out to dinner, but keep asking her whether the time and place is okay for her, then you’re giving her the impression that you don’t know how to handle a relationship。
当你计划带她出去吃晚饭时,却一个劲儿地问她所定的时间和地点是否合适,于是你就给她留下了这样一个印象:你不知道如何处理好一段关系。