5. Approach for the kiss. Depending on your starting position you may need only to turn your head, or you may need to lean in a bit. You may want to use your hands to gently urge your partner’s body or head into position—you just want to guide his or her movement a little, you don’t want to forcibly move any part of his or her body or hold your partner in an uncomfortable position—but in general you just want to position yourself correctly and let your partner meet you. As you near your partner’s lips, maintain eye contact.

接吻的方法。这取决于你最初的姿势，你可能只是需要转一下你的头，或者你需要稍微地倾斜一下。你可能想用你的手温柔地环住你伴侣的身体或者回到正确的位置——你只是想轻微地指引一下他或她的动作，你并不想用力地他或她身体的任何一个部位或者用一个很不舒服的方式抱住你的伴侣——但是一般而言，你要正确调好你的位置，让你的伴侣能看见你。当你的嘴唇靠近她的嘴唇时，一定要眼神交汇。