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Take a course in happiness. Happiness study is revolutionizing how we think of psychology, economics, and sociology. Preview: Learn to be more optimistic.
第九,修读关于“幸福”的课程。关于“幸福”的研究就是要革新我们对心理学、经济学和社会学的认知。首先要学会更积极地看待问题。
Take an acting course. The best actors are actually being their most authentic selves. You need to learn to communicate authentically so that people will listen and feel connected.
第十,修读表演课。实际上最好的演员只是在演绎最真实的自己。你要学习真诚地与别人沟通,让他人愿意聆听并产生共鸣。
Learn to give a compliment. The best compliments are specific. Practice on your professors. If you give a good compliment the recipient will think you’re smarter: a big payoff in college, but a bigger payoff in the work world.
第十一,学会赞美别人。最好的赞美该是言之有物的。可以把你的教授当作练习对象。如果你赞美别人得当,对方会觉得你较为聪敏:在校园内能有丰厚的回报,在工作中更显其效。
Use the career center. These people are experts at positioning you in the workforce and their only job is to get you a job. How can you not love this place? If you find yourself thinking the people at your college’s career center are idiots, it’s probably a sign that you really, really don’t know what you’re doing.
第十二,好好利用求职中心。这些专业人员会帮你在劳动市场中找准定位,他们的唯一工作就是帮你就业。你怎能不爱上这个地方?如果你觉得在大学求职中心里面的人是傻子,那很可能是因为你根本不知道自己在干什么。
