5. He's been married before (but you haven't)
第五,有过婚史的男人,但女性未婚
A paper published in the European Journal of Operational Research in 2009 tracked 1,000 couples who were either married or in serious relationships over five years. Researchers found a previous divorce lessened the chances of a relationship surviving, although this was less marked when both partners had been divorced before.
和有婚史的男人在一起,他们容易再一次对婚姻做出不忠行为。专家还分析,如果男女双方都有过婚史,那重新结合后相互做出不忠行为的可能性会稍微低些。
6. He's sex-obsessed
第六,性爱狂
One third of 1,468 men questioned admitted to viewing online pornography. According to Julia Cole, men who use internet porn on a regular basis are more likely to be unfaithful, as the habit can produce a deadening effect on emotions that can hurt relationships. Cole says: ‘Excessive use of chat lines, sex-texting and porn can leave someone numb to the emotional responses they would feel in a normal relationship.’
实验中,1468个男人中有30%的人承认他们会在网上观看性爱视频,而专家称,对于性行为有特殊癖好的男人比较危险。
7. He was privately (or religiously) educated
第七,有受过特殊的宗教教育
A survey by illicit encounters.com found almost one quarter of the site’s 500,000 members attended private schools. A further 15 per cent of members had attended religious schools.
在调查中,专家发现有过偷腥经验的人中,有25%的或多或少接受过宗教教育,或曾进入过宗教学校。
8. He doesn't like your family or friends
第八,他对你的家人朋友无好感
Relate says men risk losing a close-knit support group, and not just their spouse, if they stray.
相信我,一个不爱你的家人和善待你朋友的男人,绝对不会善待你。
9. He's a social-networking enthusiast
第九,社交狂人
One law firm, Divorce Online, claimed almost one in five petitions they processed cited Facebook. ‘I am seeing an increasing number of people whose partners have been unfaithful through one of the social networking methods,’ says Julia Cole.
如果你的男人是一个“社交蝴蝶”,那么你真的要小心了。
10. He has a lower IQ than you
第十,他的情商很低,比你要低。
Earlier this year, a study by Dr Satoshi Kanazawa, an evolutionary psychologist from the London School of Economics and Political Science, revealed the smarter a man is, the less likely he is to cheat on his partner.
一个情商低的男人,很有可能做出很多不可思议的行为。做出以后,更容易被发现。