Without happiness, one will feel terribly miserable, for he always insists that he has done the right thing all the time and that others often do wrong to him. He attributes every mistake to others or the environment instead of reflecting on himself, which renders him farther and farther away from happiness. A celebrity once said, "Nobody intends to make mistake. One makes mistake because of his igorance."Therefore, if someone makes mistake, we need to care about him, forgive him and enlighten him by setting a good example for him instead of losing temper, hatred to him. Otherwise, we are also ingorant like him, for we also make a stupid mistake that leads us farther from happiness.

没有幸福的人是很痛苦的，人之所以痛苦，就是认为自己总是对的，别人总是对不起我，将一切错误都归罪于别人和外境，觉得自己没有错，而不反省自己也有满身的过失。这就使自己与幸福渐行渐远。一个名人曾经说过：“没有人想犯错误，之所以会犯错误，那是因为他的无知。”所以，如果有人犯下错误，我们要会去关怀他，宽恕他，并以身做则地去感化他，而不是去发怒、生气、讨厌和打击他。否则，我们就与他一样，同样是无知的人，因为我们也犯下了无知的错误远离了幸福的人生。

We need to know and understand happiness before we finally get it. A smart man must know to do something good even though it may be small, and not to do something wicked even though it may be tiny in the course of socializing. As long as we keep a kind heart and do everything morally and legally, we can live a placid life. But if we keep an evil heart and do whatever we want, we are indeed digging a tomb for ourselves. A smart man knows to learn a lesson from his falls for he knows that every setback is a precious experience leading to happiness in the future. He will not waste his time in critizing others. Instead, he tends to spend more time seeking his own happiness. He knows to keep a heart of conscience and not to spread others' mistakes. He also knows to think before he leaps so that he will not feel regretful afterwards. Moreover, he knows to tolerate others, so he can naturally lead a happy life.

我们要认识幸福，了解幸福，才能够得到幸福的人生。聪明的人必定懂得无论处事、待人、接物都要做到“勿以善小而不为，勿以恶小而为之”。人心正则人人从善，事事循理，自能安以相处。人心邪，任意妄行，则自毙。聪明的人知道跌倒的时候不要白白地爬起来，任何一种磨练都是通向幸福的宝贵经验。他不会胡乱耗时间去批评别人，而是多花时间改善自己营造幸福。他懂得不会将自己的心田昧，更不会把他人的过失扬。他明白事不三思终会后悔,能够忍让，自然幸福而无忧。