Revisit your relationships. Are they satisfactory? Do you have a good support network in place? If not, work on building it up. When you hit a bump in the road having supportive people around you will make a world of difference.
重温你的关系网，这些关系是否令人满意呢？你有一个很好地支持你的交际网吗？如果没有，建设起来。当你遇到颠簸的道路，支持你的人可以帮你创造出不同的世界。

Also, review how you contribute to a larger purpose. Focusing on something bigger than you are helps to keep things in perspective.
此外，知道如何做有助于实现更大的目标。看的更广阔的可以让你看事情更正确。

2. Set realistic expectations.
设定切合自我实际的目标。

You are human. Forcing or faking happiness leads to misery and conflict. Even if you create your happiness foundation and achieve a state of general well-being, you will have your ups and downs. It's how you deal with those fluctuations that matters. Condemnation and negativity will jeopardize your state of balance. Get real. Eliminate the pressure and you will bounce back more quickly.
你是个普通人。强迫或者伪造幸福会导致痛苦和冲突。即使你创造了你的幸福基础，实现了总体幸福感的状态，你也将有你的跌宕起伏。因此，你如何处理那些生活中的波动至关重要。谴责和否认定将危及你的平衡状态，面对现实吧！消除压力，你会更迅速的恢复活力。

3. Allow your feelings, rather than resisting them.
遵从真实感受，而不是抵制它们。

There are days when you will wake up feeling unhappy. Whether you fully understand it or not, it's important to accept that this happens. Be patient with yourself. Don't complain, but do indulge in a little time to examine your feelings without criticism. Rather than, "I hate when I feel like this," try "It's interesting that I have these feelings." Be OK with it and examine the feelings for a little while if they merit your attention. If not, simply turn your focus to your larger purpose to prevent yourself from dwelling on something that isn't dwell-worthy.
总有当你醒来感觉不快的几天。无论你是否完全理解，重要的是要接受这种情况的发生。对自己有耐心。不要抱怨，而是要不带批判性的检查自己的情绪。不是“我讨厌当我有这种感觉的时候”，而是试着想想“有这种感觉很奇妙。” 对这些情绪保持淡定，如果这种情绪值得关注，检查它；如果没有，把你的关注点放在更大的目标上，来防止你关注不必要的东西。

4. Be ready for change.
为改变做好准备。

Ups and downs are normal, but if you find yourself in what feels like a constant state of unhappiness it's important to listen to what your body and mind are telling you. Life has a funny way of tapping us on the shoulder when we need to create change. If you don't pay attention to the gentle tapping, you may be surprised by a less gentle reminder--or series of them.
跌宕起伏是正常的，但是如果你处于一个一直不开心的状态，有必要听从你身体和情感的意愿。生活以一种有趣的方式，在我们需要改变时轻拍我们的肩膀。如果你没有注意到这种轻拍，你可能会对不太温和的提醒感到惊讶（这样的提醒可能会有一大串）。

Either way, your subconscious mind will get your attention to suggest, or force, change. So make it easy on yourself and pay attention to the gentle tap. What is the cause of your unhappiness? Find someone who can help you sort through it, and embrace the change that lies ahead. You are on your way.
无论怎样，你会关注你的潜意识，或者强迫自己去改变。因此，放轻松，注意到生活的轻拍。你的不快乐源于什么？找一个人帮助你理清思路，拥抱你未来的改变，你正在路上。