做自己,也给对方做自己的机会
One of the key aspects of every relationship is letting yourself and your special someone be themselves. You were attracted to this person for a reason, and there’s no need to try and change them.
恋爱中关键的一点是,让自己和你的那个她(他)做自己。你被对方吸引不无缘由,没必要下功夫去改变他们。
Likewise, don’t let someone try to change you. You are who you are, and if that’s not good enough for either of you, then this isn’t really a relationship that’s going to work.
同样,不要让对方改变你,你就是你,如果互相觉得不适合,那不如趁早散伙。