有动力很上进的男人很棒
No, I’m not talking about an expensive car. I’m talking about a man who has the ability to go after what he wants. Ambition is something that women find very attractive in men. Not ambition in the sense that you knock other people down to build yourself up, but in the fact that you will work hard to get what you want and help others to do the same thing.
这里要讲的不是名车,而是强调男人应该能够努力争取自己渴望的东西。女人认为雄心壮志的男人很有魅力。这里的壮志不是说你可以撂倒他人强大自我,而是说你能够通过努力工作来得到自己渴望的东西,同时还能向他人伸出援手。