Getting and giving advice can often be a tricky business

because you never really know anyone

unless you walk a mile in their shoes.

Having said that, I love getting advice

because it is a caring, intimate experience.

得到建议和提出建议常常会是棘手的事情，

除非你亲身经历一下别人的处境，

否则不会真正了解别人。

就此而言，我喜欢得到建议，

因为这是一种关怀，是亲近的体验。