If you’re struggling to get noticed by Mr. Right, this guide will turn on a flashing arrow over your head so you can meet the man of your dreams.
如果你正试图让“梦中情人”注意到你，下面的指导会助你一臂之力，让你遇到如意郎君。

Step 1: Research him
Do a little research — talk to his friends to find about what he’s like and what he likes to do.
第一步:研究他
要研究他——和他的朋友谈谈，发现他喜欢的事物和喜欢做的事。

Step 2: Get closer
Get closer by joining his gym or volunteering or participating in causes he believes in, such as a homeless shelter, soup kitchen, political rally, or church program. Choose only the activities that you’re actually interested in, too, so that you’re spending time around him without being creepy.
第二步:要进一步接近
要进一步接近他：比如和他一起去健身或是一起去做他信仰的事，比如搭建为无家人准备的帐篷，为救济贫民设立施舍处, 进行政治集会或者做些教堂组织的活动。要选择那些你也很感兴趣的活动，以便你不必感到拘束，顺气而然地和他在一起。

Tip：Wear his favorite sports team’s jersey or colors to school, a party, or whenever you’re around him.
小贴士:上学时或去参加聚会时，或是只要他在你身边时，你要穿上他最喜欢的球队的运动衫。

Step 3: Pay him a compliment
Pay him a compliment via text message, e-mail or online through a social network.
第三步:问候他
通过短信，电子邮件或社交网络的在线服务来问候他。

Step 4: Whip out the electronic device
Whip out the latest electronic device to show that you are tech savvy. This is a great way to catch his eye without being too obvious.
第四步:马上拿出电子设备
马上拿出电子设备来表明你懂得科技。这是种不太明显但是能吸引他眼球的好办法

Step 5: Play to his baser instincts
Flirt with him and then be coy or play hard to get. Most guys enjoy a good chase.
第五步:要挑起他追你的欲望
和他调情，然后要变得害羞或让他很难追到，大多数男人都喜欢追想尽办法去追女孩。

Step 6: Be confident
Be confident in yourself above all else. Trying to be someone you’re not will only attract the wrong kind of man for you.
第六步:要自信
最重要的是要自信。试图做你不想当的那种人只会吸引不合适的男人。