What happened? I mean these are not very difficult questions.
怎么回事? 这是说 这些并不是非常难的问题
Even the final of positive psychology is going to be difficult than that. I mean, really. A lot more. Why?
就算是积极心理学的期末考 都要比它难 真的 难很多 为什么?
Well the reason is I asked you a certain question, and that question directed you to a certain part of reality. And that's a good thing.
原因是 我问了你们某个特定的问题 那个问题让你注意现实的某一部分 这是件好事
Because if we were focusing on everything all the time, that wouldn't be a good thing. We would be distracted by every single noise.
因为如果我们总是专注于一切事情 那就不是件好事 每种噪音都会让我们分心
By every single movement. So it's a good thing that we can focus. However, we also need to remember.
所有物体运动都会让我们分心 所以我们能集中注意力是件好事 但是 我们也要记得
The consequences of this ability to focus that is not always good it's not always helpful. Because as far as you were concerned.
这种集中精神的能力带来的后果 却不总是好事或者有益的 因为在你们看来
There were no children on the bus. As far as you were concerned, there were only geometric shapes.
巴士上没有小孩 在你们看来 上面只有几何图形
In other words, my question, for most of you, created a very specific reality, a reality which there were geometric shapes.
换句话说 我的问题给你们大多数人 制造了一种特定的现实 一种只有几何图形
And no children on the bus. Now that has very important implications. Think about the following question: what question is mostly asked.
巴士上没有小孩的现实 这有着非常重要的含义 想想以下的问题 蜜月期过后
By couples beyond the honeymoon phase? So they go through the honeymoon phase whether it's a month, a year or sometimes two years.
夫妻间问的最多的问题是什么? 他们度过蜜月期之后 不管是一个月 一年还是两年