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First of all, thank you so much for being here with us.
首先，非常感谢你做客我们的节目。
I want to ask you a few questions.
我想问你几个问题。
First of all, tell me a little bit about the relationship you have with yourself?
首先，跟我说说你和自己的关系吧。
With myself before the accident?
在车祸发生前和我自己的关系吗？
Both.
两者都有。
Both.
两者都有。
Who was on social media?
谁使用过社交媒体软件？
Who's using Facebook? Everyone.
谁在用脸书？每个人都用。
Have you ever put your relationship status complicated?
你有没有把你们的关系搞得很复杂？
My relationship with myself, before I was here was so complicated.
在我来这之前，我和自己的关系非常复杂。
It was all about people.
这一切都与人有关。
It was never about me.
这从来都不是关于我的。
There was no me anywhere.
哪里都没有我。
You see people's pleaser.
你看到的是取悦别人的人。
The person who just wants to make everyone happy knowing that it's not worth it.
一个只想让所有人都开心的人知道这样做不值得。
You just keep doing it.
你只要一直这么做就行了。
Keep doing it.
继续做下去。
And yes, your relationship eventually with yourself becomes complicated.
是的，你与自己的关系最终会变得复杂。
And then now, I don't know where there are people around me or not, but I me now.
然后现在，我不知道我周围有没有人，但我就是我。
I'm more me now.
我现在更像我了。
That's so nice.
那真是太好了。
What advice would you give to your younger self?
你对年轻时的自己有什么建议？
To my younger self?
给我年轻时的自己？
Interesting question!
有趣的问题！
Well, I'll just make her sit next to me and very nicely, I'll tell her.
好的，我会让她坐在我旁边，非常友好，我会告诉她。
Don't invest yourself in the wrong people.
不要把自己投资在错误的人身上。
Because when you invest yourself in the wrong people, they break you into pieces, they torn you apart in such a way that it takes years and years to get back together.
因为当你把自己投资到错误的人身上时，他们会把你撕成碎片，以至于需要很多年才能重新拼凑到一起。
And also, I will tell her that while you are busy making amazing plans in your life, my dear, prepare yourself for worse.
还有，我会告诉她，当你忙于制定宏伟计划时，亲爱的，你要做好更糟糕的准备。
Because life is so unpredictable.
因为生活是如此变幻莫测。
Just be prepared.
做好准备就行了。
One of my philosophies in life is, is that there are three steps in order to repair your life.
我的人生哲学之一是，修复你的人生需要三步。
First of all, is to change your personal story, then your daily rituals, and then the people, you surround yourself.
首先是改变你的个人故事，然后是你的日常礼仪，然后是你周围的人。
I believe so much in these.
我太相信这些了。
So tell me, how important is to surround yourself with the right people?
那么告诉我，身边有合适的人有多重要?
Time is a beautiful teacher.
时间是一位美丽的老师。
It filters out the extras from your life, including people.
它会过滤掉你生活中的多余部分，包括人。
Being in the wheelchair in 12 years, I've had three categories of people.
在轮椅上坐了12年，我知道三种类型的人。
Number one category is of the people who see you in the misery in pain and the backoff, they're like we are gone.
第一类是那些看到你在痛苦中痛苦和退缩的人，他们就像我们已经不在了一样。
We can't handle it.
我们没法控制那些人。
I respect them for their honesty.
我尊重他们的诚实。
