杰里·朱克带给我们的启示

...nobody else is playing as much attention to your failure as you are. You're the only ones who are absessed with the importance of your own life. To everyone else, it's just a blip on the radar screen. So just move on.
...没有人会像你自己那样对自己的失败那么在意。你是唯一沉湎于你自己重要性的人。对于其他人来说，你只是雷达荧光屏上的一个点。所以，只管前行吧。

The real thing is great. It's just not so easy with actual beings, but if you work at it and you get it right, it will make you happier than anything else you do in your life.
真正的爱是伟大的。做人不容易，但是如果能为人生不断奋斗，并且朝着正确的方向前进，你就会比做其他任何事情更感觉幸福。