可可电台，每期节目一话题，让英语磨练耳朵的同时学到更多有益的小知识，丰富知识的同时受益于生活。

致单身的人：你真准备好要谈恋爱？

Will it fit in your priorities?

恋爱是你的当务之急吗？

If you’re a person who has a vision and a plan, this is a good question to ask yourself. How will a romantic relationship fit in with your priorities? If you know that right now, you’re still building your career and there’s a lot at stake, is it the right time to have one? While you’re finishing one project after another, having a boyfriend or girlfriend is a nice to have that you think about during your breaks.

如果你有自己的目标和规划，那很有必要扪心自问：一段浪漫的恋爱是否是当务之急？如果你确信如此，别忘了你正在努力打拼事业，百事待兴，这时候谈恋爱适合吗？你正项目接项目地忙活，喘息时想想身边能有个伴儿是件非常美好的事。

If you’re fully aware that it’s not one of your main concerns, there’s a high probability that you’ll take your partner for granted. It would be more beneficial and practical for you to allocate your time to what’s important to you as of the moment and avoid disappointing someone else.

如果你非常清楚这不是你的重中之重，那就算有恋人，你很可能也不会特别投入。这种情况下，倒不如把时间用来做当下最重要的任务，不要徒劳使他人失望罢。

【知识点讲解】

fit in 有地方容纳； 有时间从事（某事）； 有时间接待（某人）； 相处融洽

例句：

She didn't fit in and she had few social graces.

她不适合这种场合，对社交礼仪所知甚少。

I think we can fit in an additional room.

我想我们可以再加建一间房子.

All of us couldn't fit in there.

那里挤不下我们所有的人.

take for granted 认为…理所当然， 想当然； 轻信；

例句：

I came into adult life clueless about a lot of things that most people take for granted.

我已成年，却对许多大部分人认为理所当然的事情一窍不通。

There are many things I take for granted and don't even realize.

我把好多事情都想成是理所应当,甚至都意识不到我把它想成这样.

Don t take for granted the things closest to your heart.

与你内心最贴近的东西,切莫等闲视之.

欢迎关注主播微信公众号：安夏说英语，查阅更多英语学习节目~安夏个人微信：anxia3210

[本节目属可可原创，未经许可请勿转载]