1. Ask questions that require more than a one-word response. You do not want to put the other person in a position to be able to say yes or no. Instead of saying "are you going away this weekend?" ask "where are you going this weekend?" Now the person will probably answer with a location, for example, the beach. Now you have something else to talk about! The beach, silly!
避免问一般疑问句。不要问对方“你周末是否出去?”而是问“你周末有什么打算?”然后你可以沿着他的话题接着问下去。