9.If you haven't talked to the person before, don't just explode with conversation and interest one day at random. While occasionally this can leave a positive impression, a lot of the time people will wonder if you're trying too hard. Casual asides to a person leading up to conversations are a better way to go.
如果你从来没有和对方说过话,切忌直接找对方说话或谈论彼此的兴趣,虽然偶尔会给人留下好的印象,更多时候你的热情会吓跑对方。