最后一个,同时也是最重要的一个特点,那就是女人喜欢倾听,而男人喜欢诉说,比如下面一段对话,拿给普通的美国人看一遍,然后让他们判断一下A和B的性别,结果所有人都认为:喋喋不休的A是男人,随声附和的B是女人。
A: I saw a king fisher Saturday morning.
B: Did you?
A: It took of about three feet from my side. I didn't see it in the bush. It took off out of a bush...
B: Mmmm.
A: Passed the front of my canoe and flew into a tree. I sat there...
B: Very nice.
A: And thought...
B: Yeah.
A: It looked down at me and it was really bright.
B: Beautiful.