3. Long-Term Litmus Test
"Marry someone you want to sit next to for the rest of your life." —Megan Smollins, 26, Astoria, N.Y.
3. 长期试金石:嫁给一个你想下半生都配在他身边的人。—— Megan Smollins
4. Heed Your Grandparents
"My grandfather had some gems: 'Don't be with a stupid man just to be with any man.' 'A real man always takes care of his family.' 'You don't want to be walked over, and you don't want a man you can walk over, either.' And my favorite: 'Don't be a fool, Michelle. You can be anything you want, but don't be a fool.'" —Michelle Porter, 28, Charlotte, N.C.
4. 听从老人的劝告:“不要为了只是想找一个男朋友而跟一个傻男人在一起。”“一个真正的男人在任何时候都会照顾到他的家人。”“你不想被别人牵着鼻子走,但你也绝对不想找一个能被你牵着鼻子走的男人!”“你可以成为你想成为的一切,但是不要成为一个傻瓜!”—— Michelle Porter